These 5 Things Are Likely To Give You The Same Feeling As Falling In Love Or Sex, Studies Reveal

There is nothing quite like the moment you fall for someone. The butterflies in your tummy, the automatic smile when you see them, the inability to talk about anything but them. It can be a lot. And while all this may feel like such the illogicalโ€ฆ
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What an awesome article, all of these are my fav๐Ÿฅฐ

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Spruce Up Your Relationships With These Quick Tips!โฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜˜

Today is the BIG love day, but if you are like millions of real people love sometimes can be hard….when dealing with a spouse you really have to understand each and learn each other. I made it to 14 years by learning something’s about myself in order to better our relationship! Here are a few things to help you as well:

  • Share responsibilities. Help each other out and lend a hand. There is no competition or score keeping in a relationship. It is a team effort!
  • Say youโ€™re sorry. The infamous words we long to hear and are afraid to utter. These three words can quickly deflate any argument, especially if said in sincerity and love.
  • Take care of yourself mentally. Everyone has a mental breaking point. Know yours and share that point with your partner. Let them know when you need some space and what they may need to do or not do to help you out.
  • Face spirituality together. Often this is the one thing couples discuss last. Whether you share beliefs with your partner or not, this is a discussion that is a must. (My fav) ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ
  • Learn to fight a good fight. Fights are not always bad things. Refrain from name calling, putting down, and needling sensitive areas of the other person. It ups the ante so to speak.

Hope these help you as much as they have helped me!!!โค๏ธ

Happy Valentine’s Day…here’s to better relationships!!!๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพโฃ๏ธ

Olivia

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Love Letter To Yourselfโฃ๏ธ

#selflove

๐Ÿ’“Ok, ladies, we are focusing on Self-Love so I want to know how much do you love yourself! Drop a few lines in the comments, but hereโ€™s the catch๐Ÿ˜‰

You can only use these words: beautiful, amazing, lovable, brilliant, ladylike, easy-going, ambitious, feisty, fierce, and empowered!

If you like please DM me and Iโ€™ll add to the group without your name, really hoping you feel so confident about who you are that you would share in the group….alright Iโ€™ll go first ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ’‹

Here’s mine:

โฃ๏ธI’m brilliant, lovable, easy-going and very ladylike. I’m empowered and feisty when I enter a room. I have amazing talents, although little I’m pretty fierce๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’‹

Self~Love Day5 Build a Community ๐Ÿ’“

#selfloveday5

#buildacommunity

๐Ÿ’“A good friendship is when you both can trust each other and can count on one another and you know when to comfort you, not aggravate you!

๐Ÿ’“No friend should have you ready to slap them, lol! Your friend should be ready to clap instead ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ

๐Ÿ’“Take and build a tribe full of women who support, encourage, and complete you!

Check yo circle,

Olivia

Days: 8-9 A Mom is Sentence Too!

Just got off the phone with him and he was very upbeat, considering yesterday day he got his release date. November 9, 2018 my birthday month! This would be the best gift ever to see my son put this shit behind him. I email him constantly even when I know he can’t email right back. I take the phone every where I go, because I never want to miss his call. Some days are better than others, but today I was pretty bummed out. I just really hate him being back there! Oh well it’s a long weekend so he will be able to see his little boy. That will put a big small on all their faces, can’t wait until next month so I can see him too.

A little pic of my sweet grand baby ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

A NOTE FOR MOMS DEALING WITH INCARCERATED CHILD: When the child is in womb of mother, she gets deeply connected to this little innocent soul. This connection is so strong, serene and pure that it crushes down remorselessly anything that stands in its path! Children are indeed gift of life to all moms and they relish this charm. This love knows no caste, colour, creed, law or pity and maybe thatโ€™s why this companionship lasts forever! When hurdles of incarceration come in way of this pious relationship then all it causes is heartbreak especially when justice is not done!

What Else Can You Go!

This morning I was all set to give you all a long story and recap of my weekend, but to wake up to another heartbreaking news story just took over my mind. What is going on in this world? How can these attacks keep happening? I feel so sorry for everyone who had to endure this horrific event. Soon there isn’t going to be any place we can go. How do you have so much hatred in your heart, to afflict so much pain on others you don’t even know. I pray God comforts those who are grieving their love ones today. We have to find a way to heal our nation. This saddens me to my core, but not going to dwell too much on it. I know God will comfort us all. Chat soon….

Ms. Fran

“…be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His might” Eph. 6:10

He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the week. Isaiah 40:29

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

Wow what a Hell of a week๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿท๐ŸŽ‰

First of let me start off with cute pics of my grandson, yes I’m going to be that Gigi๐Ÿ˜‚I had the pleasure of having him and my sons girlfriend spend the week with me. So if you notice I was missing this sweet lil guy is why! My son, girlfriend, and her mom was here and we had blast. All night partying, talking, laughing, and drinking ๐Ÿ™ƒI was in granny heaven with all the love surrounding me. Just think a couple of months ago I checked myself into the hospital because I wanted to end it all. Glad I came to my senses when I did and sought out help. My son seems really happy, the baby is absolutely beautiful, and their family has accepted all of us. So a whole week of  love from both sides of Kayden’s family. This was the happiest I’ve been in a long time. Well then I got the bad news that my son would be moving back to Texas.๐Ÿ˜ž Yes, I’m so heartbroken because I kind of got use to him being around again. I enjoyed cooking for him and the talks we have. I know he isn’t my little boy anymore, and he showed me just how much of a man he was. He was up when baby got up, changed diapers,(even the poopy ones), fed him, and just really helped out a lot. I offered my time, but he was having none of that. Now this isn’t how I expected his life to turn out, but it did! I know he has taken the things I’ve taught him and applied them to his life. I’m very proud of him, and wish the best for his whole new little family. 

So then today happens, well kind of all week, but I was distracted with all the company. The bad, negative thoughts in my head. No, not the suicidal ones, just the self-doubt, guilt, and worthless ones. I know I missed a couple of days on my meds, because didn’t I want to mix with drinks. These thoughts just been pushing to get inside my head all week, and this morning they did. I woke up with no motivation, and self-doubt. Still trying to wrap my head around this damn disease. How long will I continue to feel this way? Does it get better? I mean it’s a damn pain in the ass to feel this way. After all that excitement, I found myself going to bed at 5pm on a Friday night. Only to sleep half the day today! I have missed two therapy appointments and she has been calling like crazy. She probably thinks I’ve given up on therapy. I’ll call and explain my busy schedule. Anywho, just wanted to share with you all. Everything has been perfect this week and I can’t wait to see my little man again.๐Ÿ˜Hoping you all were surviving without my posts, lol! Well it’s time to get back to normal, whatever the hell that is??? Chat soon….

Ms. Fran

Happy Valentines Dayโค๏ธ๏ธโค๏ธ๏ธ

Good morning all, hoping this day is special for you single girls/gals and the married ones too!! So glad everyday is Valentines around my house, cause he know better!!!๐Ÿ˜‚ Lord he hates this day, but he always brings the best gifts. He loves me even when I’m fussing my pretty little head off, lol!!! Well hope you all enjoy this romantic day…chat soon!!!

Ms. Fran

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