How To Stay Positive….and Stop Complaining!

Now…that I have your attention ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

I know this is a horrible way to talk about this topic, but I wanted to stress how crazy complaining about your situation can be! Nobody wants to hear it and you don’t get what you want doing it.

๐Ÿ”…Remember You Are What You Think You Are๐Ÿ”…

Are you constantly griping?๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Looking at the bad side of things ultimately makes

it a self-fulfilling prophecy: everything goes rotten!

Instead of complaining about what you lack, cultivate and appreciate what you do

have. Nurturing your attitude so you become a positive person, and appreciating

who you are based on your capabilities, will create a positive outcome.

Your trip to success depends on the decisions you make๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿพ

  • Your task is to envision the situation from a ‘selfless’ perspective rather than a selfish one.
  • Take responsibility for your actions. If you feel your actions produce negative results, and the outcome is unacceptable, then shift your actions.
  • As you allow yourself the liberty to change, you also allow yourself the freedomto rise and discover new roads to success.
  • Remember a time or a situation when you faced a moderate degree of challenge.
  • You may have noticed a distinct change in your feelings. As the time drew closer to achieving whatever it was you set

out to accomplish, you felt more alive and more aware of your surroundings.

  • Your aliveness and vitality produce pleasurable feelings and is self-encouraging.
  • Your paradigms and emotions reach new peaks and plateaus as you plot your

direction with conviction.

  • When one door, or opportunity, closes another one bangs wide open.
  • It’s really good cliche! ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸพThe opportunity for challenge helps you to grow, change, and take

charge of yourself. Working towards a new and exciting goal, or eliminating a non-empowering emotion or habit, empowers you to control your present situation

and your life.

  • As your ability to develop a new perspective grows, you put

yourself in the driver’s seat to greater self-actualization.

Admit it, there are folks in this world that enjoy pissing you off. ๐Ÿคฌ

Maybe it’s because they lack direction in life, and attempt to communicate their frustration to you by pushing your anger buttons.

They may feel that they have no other way to relieve their pain but to cause you pain.

If they resist communicating with you in a positive way, let go of the situation.

Give yourself a time frame to decide how long you’ll put up with their manipulative behavior.

There’s no reason to let unwarranted conflict or pain affect your


Speaking up for yourself is your choice and decision.

Fury and frustration with others will slow you down and block your progress toward success.

Making a move to slow down, speed up, or get out of their way by changing your direction, is a positive step forward.

Your ability to master your emotions depends on the positive decisions you make.

Creating a life of personal fulfillment is based on your inner strength, determination, and communication.

You won’t know where you’re going until you start heading in that direction.

Direct yourself to the path that provides maximum enjoyment and positive interactions with everyone!

Hope you will start focusing on what’s good and don’t allow your thoughts ๐Ÿ’ญ to keep you stuck in negative thinking!!!

Peace and Happy Thoughts,


{Life Empowerment Mentor}


Start Your Day in Prayer ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

Good morning friends, as you go about your day remember you become what you think, so think happy positive thoughts!

Your prayer:

Free me from all the thoughts that bind me from having a positive life, that I may break free and live a fulfilling life.

Free me from the darkest of my thoughts, that I may learn to view things in a different light.

Have an amazing day๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ˜ƒ


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Letโ€™s Set Your Mind on Success to Assure Abundance in Your Life: ๐Ÿ’ต

Here are a few fundamental actions you are able to do to bring outright abundance into your life:

. Being Grateful

๐Ÿ”…Distinguish what your core needs and wants are:

This is where you must truly take the time to get to know your unquestionable self. Use “quiet time” and meditation to help you clear up what is truly important to you and why. Recognizing what you seek is half the way to really accomplishing it.

๐Ÿ”…Distinguish any barricades to your deservability:

As you say your affirmations, or once you think about income, it’s likely that you might experience negative responses. If you say something positive, but within your thinking NO! Then you recognize that there’s a topic there that must have additional attention. Once you’ve distinguished a block, spend time reviewing your beliefs and experiences about it; try to distinguish trigger events or influences. Ask yourself if these notions are really honest for you, now. When you’re ready just dismiss those negative ideas.

Occasionally, if you have distinguished a serious block, that has a heavy emotional impact on you, or is established on some trauma in the past, it’s best to seek a therapist or councilor to help you through your subject, so that you are able to let it go and advance to your prosperity.

๐Ÿ”…Distinguish your real beliefs about income:

Such notions commonly but not always come from childhood. What are your beliefs about income? Also, consider the things your parents taught you about income when you were growing up. What beliefs about money did you experience? Write everything down. Then break down if these beliefs are really true for you today. If they are negative,

you must review the belief and dismiss it, replacing it with a positive, prospering thought.

๐Ÿ”…Affirmations for your successfulness.

Here is a dandy one . Once a day, stand with your arms open and say with delight…

“I’m open and receptive to all the good and abundance in the cosmos, thanks, Life.”

Remember, everything you say and believe is an affirmation. Be cognizant of your words and your thoughts, keep them positive. Recognize and dismiss any negative thoughts that arise.

๐Ÿ”…Get really truthful:

Whatsoever you claim from life, life will claim from you. You must avert any sort of dis-honesty. This can in reality be truly hard, as I don’t just mean the obvious matters, but likewise little things, like not being honest with your change if the sales assistant has made a error, or borrowing little items from the office. Or perhaps you sneaking time or relationships or respect from others. All these matters count, itโ€™s like saying to yourself… I don’t merit the good in life, so I’ll steal around and take it.


Thinking negatively about the things you desire is what is addressed as “poverty thinking”. To accomplish your prosperity you must dismiss this thinking. Alternatively, start “Prosperity Thinking”. Look around in your life, everyplace you’ll find both huge and small things to be thankful for, individuals you know, little events that put a grin on your face, your youngsters, income you receive…. our lives are full of abundance already, but frequently we choose to dismiss it. You’ll never draw in more abundance into your life if you brush aside what you already have. So daily set just a little amount of time aside to consider and be thankful for all the good things you already have in your life, by treasuring and centering on the good things you have, you’ll attract even more into your life. It’s simple but true.


{Life Empowerment Mentor}

Start Your Day in Pray๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

Have an amazing day friends….๐Ÿ’“

Throughout this day, may I be keenly aware of your presence in everything I do โ€“ as I commute to work, drop children off at school, keep house and speak with my neighbors. May my life be a living example and may others see Christ in me. There are many that are hurting in this world โ€“ may I be a salve to someone today Lord, in a way that I canโ€™t even imagine. May my words be seasoned with salt and minister grace to all that hear. May my actions be aligned with your Word.

Olivia ๐Ÿ’“

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