Quick Ways To Build Your Self Confidence….

#thursdaythoughts

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿพ The very first step is to accept yourself โ€“ lovingly. No person in the world in perfect so why bother to shed tears over your imperfectness. This is how God wanted us to be โ€“ Imperfect! We might have something that someone else may lack and someone else might be endowed with the qualities, which we lack. This incompleteness makes us go out and seek companions who make us feel loved, wanted and complete. Oh what a great feeling! Would we experience it if we were inside the cocoon of our perfection? Never! So accept yourself the way you are. It will free your mind of a heavy baggage of unnecessary worries. You will instantly feel light and cheerful.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿพ ๐Ÿ™Œ๐ŸพLiberate yourself – Go out and do what you like! – How long it has been since you last went to have a walk among the pines โ€“ something that you loved as a child? How long has it been when you walked hand in hand with your friend to the bakery and tossed a coin to decide what to buy? These might seem very simple things but these simple things have the power to add on to build great confidence and fulfilment. Life if see is actually quite simple. What gets a bit too complex though is to remain simple. Isnโ€™t it? Just as small drops of water make the mighty ocean, the little things you enjoy doing have the capability to turn you into a storehouse of confidence. When God made you, He put a desire in your heart and bestowed onto you the capability to achieve it. However, in the process of growing up, you forgot what exactly your purpose was, what is that you liked and what is that you enjoyed doing. It does happen with lots and lots of people who do feel like breaking free but are too tied up in their day to day responsibilities that it gets impossible for them to spare even 10 minutes to reflect on their lives, their direction, their dreams and goals. Itโ€™s our duty to clear the mess that prevents us from hearing to our heart. The conversations with your heart should keep getting clearer and the best way to do it is to find time to do what you enjoy. And since you enjoy doing that activity, it straightaway means that you have all the aptitude and intelligence necessary to do the job effortlessly even though you may not realize it.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ช๐ŸพFind your flock – Birds of a feather flock together. You must find out people with whom you enjoy being. They are certainly the people of your frequency and the energy flow between you and them is natural. Life becomes easy when you are among the people who are more or less on the same plane of thought as you and itโ€™s easier to relate to them. They seem to understand you and vice versa thus creating conditions for healthy conversations. A good conversation is a very healthy exercise and an important need of our mind. We all want our ideas to be heard and appreciated and a good company provides platform for the same.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸพSet Achievable Goals and Go for it! – The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. The idea is to begin with a small single step that can then further developed into giant strides. Learn to do the work at hand rather than to overwhelm oneself by looking at the entirety of a mammoth looking task. Just like the soil underneath your foot, the top of mountain too would someday be under your step. The only way to do something is to GO FOR IT! No matter how small the progress is the focus should be on completing a task successfully even though itโ€™s a small task. A series of big uncompleted task is a sure shot way to depression. Break a big task into a list of small tasks to be completed. Tick off from your list each job successfully completed. A completed task no matter how small it is gives a sense of achievement that boosts our confidence and equips us with more energy to try a bigger task.

Lady โ€˜Oโ€™๐Ÿ’“

๐“›๐“ฒ๐“ฏ๐“ฎ ๐“”๐“ถ๐“น๐“ธ๐”€๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฝ ๐“œ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฝ๐“ธ๐“ป

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Good Morning…Start Your Day in Prayer

Lord, I donโ€™t know what lay before me today, but I commit it all to you. Please give me strength and courage to get through the joys, challenges and happenings of the day. I thank you for my life and for all that I have; I commit this day to you. No matter what happens, I know you have me in the palm of your hand. In Jesusโ€™ name I pray, amen.

“Lord, grant me tenacious winsome courage as I go through this day. When I am tempted to give up, help me to keep going. Grant me a cheerful spirit when things don’t go my way. And give me courage to do whatever needs to be done. In Jesus’ name, Amen.” –

Have an awesome day friends ๐Ÿ™‚

7 Surprising Signs Your Anxiety May Stem From Your Family History

If you worry excessively just like your mom, or have a few nervous habits just like your dad, it may be a sign you got your anxiety from your parents. Because โ€” while there are many causes โ€” anxiety can be genetic, and it can be learned. Andโ€ฆ
โ€” Read on www.bustle.com/p/7-surprising-signs-your-anxiety-may-stem-from-your-family-history-17040757

Hmmm, what an interesting article!!

Morning Prayer…..

Dear God,
We confess our need for you today. We need your healing and your grace. We need hope restored. We need to be reminded that you work on behalf of those you love, constantly, powerfully, completely. Forgive us for trying to fix our situations all on our own. Forgive us for running all different directions and spinning our wheels to find help, when true help and healing must be found first in You. Forgive us for forgetting how much we need you, above everyone and everything else. We come to you and bring you the places we are hurting. You see where no one else is able to fully see or understand. You know the pain we’ve carried. The burdens. The cares. You know where we need to be set free. We ask for your healing and grace to cover every broken place. Every wound. Every heartache. Thank you that you are Able to do far more than we could ever imagine. Thank you for your Mighty Power that acts on behalf of your children. We reach out to you, and know that you are restoring and redeeming every place of difficulty, every battle, for your greater glory. Thank you that you will never waste our pain and suffering. We love you. We need you today. 

In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Have an amazing day friends….

Take Charge and Slay Your Goals….

#takechargetuesday

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸพProcrastination is a monster that lurks in the lives of every single individual. It is the bane of time management, the number one cause of time wastage, and the ultimate killer of momentum.

Therefore, to be able to effectively control your time and make every second count, it is vital for you to slay that procrastination monster!

Like all other important activities worth doing in life, slaying the procrastination monster is something that requires a huge amount of discipline and willpower, especially at the start.

The master key to doing that, however, is pretty simple. It is to simply start the day doing the activity you dread most. In self-help guru Brian Tracyโ€™s words, โ€œEat That Frog!โ€

The rationale behind this method is that once you get over and done with the most dreaded activity, you would be feeling such a sense of accomplishment and invincibility that you know nothing else can stop you. You will also gain a huge amount of momentum that will leave you rolling over the rest of the activities of the day without trouble.

Instead of slaying many procrastination monsters all throughout the day, all you have to do is to slay the king at the starting of the day, and the rest of the procrastination minions will automatically diminish in power, or even disappear altogether, making your day much more pleasant, with a much clearer sense of direction.

However, do note that this activity does need some getting used to, as I believe there are people who have successfully slain the procrastination monster and ended up feeling traumatized about all the time they have lost all their lives.

Do not underestimate the power of this skill due to its simplicity. Its simplicity is where its beauty lies! Once you start getting the feel of how to slay that procrastination monster, you will start shaving hours off unwanted shuffling and deliberating, and finally start getting things done in the fastest and most effective manner!

Take charge of your life and slay those goals….you still have time girl๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ

Lady โ€˜Oโ€™

๐“›๐“ฒ๐“ฏ๐“ฎ ๐“”๐“ถ๐“น๐“ธ๐”€๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฝ ๐“œ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฝ๐“ธ๐“ป

Your Morning Prayer….

Good morning friends, if you are suffering from feeling like you don’t have the confidence to conquer the day…repeat this little prayer!!!๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿพ

You have commanded me to be strong and courageous. You have told me not to be afraid; not to be discouraged, for you are always with me wherever I go. Remind me of this when I feel disheartened about my ability to complete the tasks that you’ve set for me and to become the person you want me to be.

Amen.

Have a Terrific Tuesday ๐Ÿ’“

Monday Motivation….

#mondaymotivation

As you arrange your goal, you need to see to it that they stick with the principles below. These are what will guide you to decide the right goals so that you might pursue them.

1. Assure congruency with your life purpose.

Your goals have to be specified in the context of your life purpose. Everything in your life ought to be in line with your purpose. Your purpose is the focus for everything in your life.

If your goals and your purpose are not congruous with one another, it either connotes:

a) Your goals are not in line with what you wish to achieve. If so, review them to perceive your central motives for listing them

b) You’ve limited the definition of your purpose. If this is the case, try to build on the definition of your purpose.

Do you realize what your purpose is? By differentiating your purpose, you then have absolute clarity on your direction and focus in life. The last thing you need to do is to spend your whole life trying to grow apples when you truly wanted oranges.

2. Assure your goal is an 80/20 goal.

How much does this goal interest you? Is this goal a fundamental goal in your life – in other words, an 80/20 goal? Your 80/20 goal refers to the 20 percent of goals which when achieved, will give you 80 percent of the collective happiness from achieving all your goals. What are these 20% goals, which really interest you? These are what you should begin centering on.

3. Grasp your motives.

Have you ever had an experience where you pursued a goal totally, only to distinguish you never truly required it? There are a few basic symptoms, which come out when you don’t truly wish a particular goal: like self-sabotaging yourself in your goal quest, losing interest during the goal achievement process, feeling hollow after the goal has been achieved.

As you ascertain your goal, be unclouded on your fundamental motives. Your goal should be something that you truly wish, and not what others wish for you. How come you need this goal? Is it for you or for others? What will you achieve out of getting this goal? Being clear on your fundamental wants will drive you ahead in the times when you face obstructions.

If you find yourself setting a goal, which isn’t what you truly wish but what others wish you to accomplish, it’s a sign that you’re chasing imposed purposes -purposes placed on you by others around you. It’s the opposite of freeing purposes – purposes that are live creations by you and your cognizance.

Monday Morning Prayer

Happy Monday friends, have an amazing and productive week!!!

Remember to smile more than you cry, and trust your process!!

Father, thank you for all the ways youโ€™ve blessed me, specifically with this job that pays my bills and puts food on my table. Thank you that ALL work has significance because work is good. Help me bring you glory today, through my actions, my words, through the good work I do to bring order to my little corner of the world. Help me view my work as a blessing and not a curse. Give me grace and strength for the hardest aspects of my job.

In Jesusโ€™ Name I pray, Amen.